Me and my bf have been together 6 months and nearly everytime we see eachother we have sex I don’t mind it like I enjoy the sex but I think with being on the pill and it being all the time my sex drive isn’t as high as it used to be I’ve spoke to him saying we should stop as much because it’s kinda of getting like a routine it and it isn’t exciting anymore but everytime he sees me he is always trying something even when I clearly display I don’t want it.

If you communicate clearly that you aren't interested in sex and disregards it that's a red flag. He should always be looking for consent and enthusiasm from you and not just trying to have sex because he wants it-- that's what sexual predators do.

🚩 yikessss major red flag behaviour. Consent is essential and if he has made it clear even one time that he will disregard consent, then you are NOT safe with this person. Please prioritise your safety and get out of this situation!!! Repeatedly asking until you eventually give in is called sexual coercion and is a form of sexual assault.

He has never did it when I don’t want to but will always keep trying kissing and hugging me etc, i may have made it sound worse he wouldn’t never do anything without consent but it just always looking for sex

@Lola_pla then talk to him and tell him you want him to stop doing that.