So monday afternoon I texted my BF “I miss you” he replied back with “no you don’t” and the I said “why do you down play my feelings for you, it’s hurtful cause K really do miss you” he said “ I just feel like we’re more and more going towards friends” and I was like “well if friends is all you want to be with me then just tell me” and the he said “you’re not list to me 🤦‍♂️ “ I asked him what he meant but he doesn’t reply to my question at all and it’s like am I over thinking it what did he mean by that and I’m kinda sad did he mean he just wants to be friends, I care so much about him and I don’t wanna lose him but it would hurt to just be friends I can’t be friends with a person I have strong feelings for. 😪 IDk what to do, I already asked and it’s like I didn’t ask at all

I feel like you asking “if you just want to be friends just say so” was asking for a dramatic reaction in an attempt to get reassurance. Don’t get me wrong, he accusing you first of not missing him is childish af. I feel both need to talk this out in person, because texting is not working

@Leagathii I feel like I’m just gonna let it cool down for a bit and then see if we can’t talk it out

@Pmar thats a good idea !

Maybe have a phone call, might be easier to talk about that kinda stuff!

This doesn't sound like a very maturely handled conversation