this guy is used to see (we didnt officially date, as he moved to another country) and i cut things off last year . recently though, he’s been messaging me periodically , asking to hang out (just at the gym, etc) ever since he came back. i never said yes, because he doesn’t know that i know about his girlfriend, and he’s never mentioned it, despite all the chances he could’ve. but he’s never tried to make a move on me, or be flirtatious in any shape or form. why would he be persistant (even if it’s not everyday) on messaging me , even when i don’t reply ? i’ve recently done some digging and ultimately decided to block him on everything , as i just find it so strange ? what do you think ????

Clearly a dodged a bullet. You must have hurt his little ego when you ended things. Blocking him was the right choice.

Sounds like his ego is hurt, if he had friendly intentions surely he would’ve said something about his girlfriend at some point. It’s good you blocked him, not worth your energy

At the end of the day the “why” doesn’t matter. Blocking him was the right choice.