The problem with dating apps I feel (and maybe modern dating in general) is that dating becomes about pretty superficial things and checking off boxes rather than geared toward true connection. Really making a connection with someone might not happen if you're just going on a few standard dinner dates with small talk, or if either party isn't open to true vulnerability. What types of dates have you been going on? Maybe try mixing it up with some more adventurous or exciting activities? Look up some interesting or thought-provoking questions to ask on dates? It's honestly odd that in modern dating we're expected to develop a deep romantic connection with a stranger we meet online through an artificial algorithm who has no connection to our everyday lives, communities and social networks. I'm not saying that it can't work out because it does, but you need something more to work with, like some basis for connection or shared experiences. So perhaps looking outside of dating apps at local groups, book clubs, run clubs, and that type of thing could help you meet someone in a more organic and meaningful way. I would also ask if you are sure you're really interested in dating and finding a relationship right now? Sometimes it's just not the right time in our lives for that and it's completely fine. Last thing, my favorite dating advice accounts I'd recommend are @artofdatingnyc and @estherperel, I think they have really great insights.
