Hey a bit random! I currently have an awful cold, and have just started taking strong antibiotics for a tick bite as well, so feeling pretty bad. I am due go on a fun work related trip with my work bestie tomorrow. Its a 4hr drive… and we are sharing a hotel room. I honestly really don’t feel up for it. Its two nights away and im super anxious about it. I really dont wanna let her down as she so excited about it. But I feel ill and not sure I’ll enjoy it:( Idk what to do!

Also to add - she currently has labryintitis which is like vertigo which she is on medication for… so not sure she should be driving for ages as well

It’s probably worth checking if you can postpone, it’s not your fault you got sick. You should rest and recover.

Sounds like you’re both not well enough to go. It’s disappointing you can’t go but things happen. Spend the weekend resting and you’ll feel a lot better next week

Thanks guys :( I will have to let her down today as we are meant to be going tomorrow afternoon. Im gonna feel so gulityyyty

@decemberbabe don’t feel guilty for putting yourself and your health. Or hers. You don’t want to give her your cold either.

@bluerose9 true, shes messaged me assuming we are still going :( dont wanna break it to her as shes so excited to go

@decemberbabe you need to be honest with her and prioritise your health. Postponing the news will only make it suck even more.

@Yi_eune i told her, shes upset but what can I do. Its just not the right time ig:(

@decemberbabe she’s allowed to be upset about the situation but what’s important is that she realises it is for the best and that your health is a priority. Did she react okay?

Yeah she’s so lovely, she just felt bad for me really! But completely understood.