Your doctor is not responsible to tell you how to use your birth control, that responsibility falls back on you. Doctors are often very misinformed about birth control as well, so always read your instructions.
Luckily for you it’s entirely optional to take a break week. There is no harm in delaying or completely skipping them.As long as you use your patches every week you have nothing to worry about. I don’t recommend taking a break every other week so I’d just continue putting your patch on.