**some trigger words** i’ve been vaping free for two months now but my partner (we’ve been together for 6 months) is leaving next month to go to uni for 3yrs, (i’m irish, he’s going to england) and i’m scared in case i fall back into bad habits again as i usually vape and over-consume and abuse when i’m at my worst (when i’m lonely, stressed and anxious), so i’m scared of breaking my pledge but i’m also terrified of starting a long-distance relationship, we’ve spent a few nights a week every week together since we started going out and now it’ll be cut down to a few days once every month, or every 6 weeks?? i’m big on quality in-person time and scared of trusting again and going long-distance due to my last partner cheating multiple times, although i know my partner now is nowhere near that low:/ i have ptsd* and anxiety* so i’m not sure if i’m just overthinking it but🤷🏽‍♀️ can anyone help with advice for first time long-distance relationships?:/

Are you involved with some professional help? It sounds like it could help you. Long distance will only work if you fully trust your partner and your communication is very good. I think its important for you to live your life while you’re apart and invest in seeing your family and friends more so you’re not lonely and less likely to fall back to vaping