So I came for the first time today, which is such a big thing for me! A lot of people have given advice on here and it worked so thank you! I never thought I was able to cum so it’s refreshing to know I can you know? I was also wondering if anyone had any further advice or tips on how to make it happen slightly faster? I feel like I took a long time and feel slightly bad for my boyfriend and his arm ache 😂

congrats, i’m still trying 😭 would it be possible for you to link the posts that helped you? thanks sm!!!

That’s amazing! Now go explore further and beyond!! 😎

@bastet132 what have you tried so far?

@bastet132 I can’t find the exact post but here’s some things I remember being told that definitely helped. I used to sort of rush into it however we spent a lot of time on foreplay before hand. We sort of just started with oral and then he switched between fingering me and playing with my clit? I also remember being told on here that to make the feeling better on your clit, to sort of stretch the hood out if that makes sense. Another thing that sounds weird but I think helped is I sort of needed to wee 😭 it sounds weird but apparently cos of the pressure down there it makes it easier and it definitely felt a lot easier. So yeah as someone who has tried to cum for the longest time and never had any luck that’s sort of what helped me 😭 and I also found that I nearly came twice while we actually had sex afterwards so clit stimulation is definitely the way to go for me at least 😂

That's great! It takes time and practice to get there, now just keep exploring and figuring out what feels the best and helps you get there faster! Highly recommend buying a little bullet vibrator that you can easily use on your clit during sex, it's great for amateurs and an easy way to introduce using toys while having sex!

@xNymphadora thank you! I think I’ll give that a go

@xNymphadora i second this!

Congratulations on reaching this milestone! To potentially reach orgasm faster, you could explore different techniques, communication with your partner about what feels good, and incorporating more foreplay. Remember, it's all about enjoying the journey together.