Probably me being single for so long. But headed out Saturday night felt good had a great laugh with my friends. Kissed a boy but didn’t swap numbers he left to go home early as he was driving & when he didn’t ask for my number I was like oh ok. I continued drinking & Got chatted to another guy who wouldn’t leave me alone till I gave him my number. Next day i had missed phone calls from the fella I gave my number too I sent a few texts but had a weird feeling just put it down to me scared to let myself be open with someone new. But the phone calls kept coming even when In work I didn’t answer, I messaged him that evening to say that nice to meet you but don’t feel a spark and best of luck in the future. Someone can’t be told no the phone calls were persistent again messaged saying sorry and best of luck for future so he kept calling that in the end I had to block his number. Two serious extremes there. One don’t want my number other won’t leave me alone. And when I’m drinking I don’t like been tied down talking to a fella I wanna dance with my friends and then next day I’m lonely and wondering why I can’t find a nice boy. 😂

I'm sorry you experienced that, that's definitely harrassment. I'm glad that besides that you had a fun night with your friends! Also if you like a guy nothing wrong with asking for his number yourself, and saying no to anyone who's being pushy.