Hey girlies!! I have an opinion to ask.. so on the weekend my boyfriend came over, he went to the bathroom and I’m not the type to really go through anyone’s phone or privacy, but while he was in the bathroom I was just on my phone and I sent him an Instagram reel and his phone didn’t buzz? So he turned off his Instagram notifications, which isn’t like him too do, we been dating for 3 years now. I obviously confronted him about it and he said it’s because his group chat was blowing up and calling each other. I also do have his phone password and location and stuff and he never hides his phone. I just thought I was so strange he did that, he did turn it back on but I just need another opinion, he also looks single on Instagram so he never really posts which I don’t really care for. It could just be my trauma response from my last relationship where I got cheated on. Any opinions? Do you guys think he may be hiding something? Or maybe I’m just tripping 😭

I wouldn‘t think much into it :) I don't think he's hiding something just based on this

@bubbly11 thanks girl I really appreciate it 🥹 I struggle with severe anxiety and fear so I always assume the worse and create these scenarios in my head.

I think his explanation for turning off notifications is totally reasonable and you should trust him

When you start to assume the worst, remind yourself that even if that comes to fruition that you will be okay. Even if something suspicious is going on or he’s cheating on you, you’re going to be okay.

Do you trust him? Then there isn’t anything to worry about. If you still struggle with things that happened in a previous relationship it’s important to work on that else it will eventually ruin things. Therapy really works for it, as well as the severe anxiety you mention.