Are there guys out there that are mature and like don’t want to go to strip clubs and are over the party scene and hooking up with girls and not into drugs? Are there any more family men who have their family, wife as priority?. But I just wonder if there are men that are like this?

I’m very disappointed in men right now.

Yes of course there are. But you can also be mature and care about your family and indulge in those things sometimes (not hooking up with girls obviously if they are married) but there's nothing wrong with partying once in a while. But to answer your question yes there are my boyfriend has never been into any of these things besides occasional drinking/having fun.

Oh good to hear! Right, occasional drinking and partying is not a bad thing! My ex bf would just want to drink uncontrollably every weekend to the point of embarrassment and wasn’t safe because he would turn mean. But yeah I hope I find myself a more family oriented man!

I mean, my boyfriend was a party guy/strip club guy before he met me. I never asked him to change though, he simply didn’t want to do those things but never had anything better to do. Now he goes golfing and gets dinner with the boys instead. I don’t care what he does and we’ve talked about how we plan on managing kids and friend hangouts when we come around to that point. We plan on waiting till we are in our 30s though so it’s at least 3 years away

What @aurielle said. Drinking for fun and being a family person have no correlation.