This is difficult to describe, but I’m having an issue with fingering. There’s times my partner does it and it’s amazing, and other times it is painful. The foreplay, pressure and speed doesn’t change and I FEEL the same, like mentally, and i’m still physically turned on. There’s just certain days it hurts. Does anyone have any clue why this could be happening?

I have tried asking him to change the spot or pressure, but when it hurts, I can’t find a way for it to not. It doesn’t happen too often, but enough to confuse me.

He always trims them since he did scratch me once. It’s not really a sharp pain. I apologise, it’s hard to describe it.

I deleted a comment by accident im so sorry😭😭

no that was me i was gonna reword it dw haha

is it more like you’re more sensitive inside?

Some days you might need more foreplay than other days. Have you tried lube as well? Do you experience stress? Because that can have an impact too.

@onthepillxo It could be that. There are times sensitivity feels really good but maybe sometimes it goes too far? Not sure what to do about that though

@Yi_eune I’ll look into that. I feel as though moisture isn’t a problem but I’ll try it regardless. I do experience stress(don’t we all😭) but I always feel very relaxed and quite excited for intimacy. Thank you both for your help.

hmmm maybe u might need more foreplay the same happens to me lol some days his fingering feels great but sometimes if he does it for too long it starts to hurt so u should try more foreplay when that happens and see how it goes

@luvmymanr I’ll definitely take that into account. If if’s an issue of too much sensitivity, how exactly does one deal with that? Not entirely sure how you like, prevent sensitivity??

@cherryade not so sure either, personally i let him know when it starts hurting and we just start doing something else during SeXy TiMe 😭