I’m also not a fan of the “my friend this” or “my friend that”, as people mess up their birth control without knowing because they don’t educate themselves. Yet they claim to be a “perfect user”, they don’t even know what that means. They will not read their instructions and just start, without knowing how it’s to be used. While it’s normal to ask for help if you don’t understand X or Y, the responsibility always falls on the user. People mess up and blame birth control, as it is the easy way out.