Hello, I am not sure what do do with this I have a boyfriend and he means so much to me like maybe too much? we see eachother quite abit maybe 3-4 times a school week. However especially on weekends and school holidays when we don’t see eachother it just feels like a waste of a day like their isn’t any point in getting up before 1pm and doing anything I have freinds but I just don’t want to go out with them as there not very good friends if I’m being honest. Even when I’m not doing something related to him he is in my mind 24/7 sometimes I can’t enjoy certain things because I am too invested in him. I have implemented different clubs and after school activities to get my mind off it. But summer is approaching and I don’t want to feel like life isn’t worth living for all of summer. What do I do? thanks for reading.

You're correct that it's not healthy to be too dependent on your SO for happiness, it's good that you recognize that! Definitely spend some more time on your own and learn to enjoy your own company! Maybe pick up a new hobby or some activity you used to like. Go on solo dates to the coffee shop or park or whatever you like to do. Your friends may also be thinking that you're not being such a good friend if you've stopped hanging out with them... when I felt this way in my previous relationship we actually took a break from seeing each other for about a week and that forced me to do other things and spend time with my friends!

Finding your boyfriend being the only reason to do anything is really concerning, it’s good that you recognise it as a problem. You really need to focus on your own life, your life outside of your relationship. If you feel like you don’t have that, you need to work on creating something for yourself. If for whatever reason you two break up you’re going to be completely stranded. If you don’t like your current friends use your time to connect with new people that you do get along with. Maybe spending less time together and focussing on your own life will help.