I know this post was written with the best of intentions, but white people sharing experiences of “discrimination” comes off as implying that you now understand and empathize with the oppressions faced by people of color because this happened to you once. It makes the narrative about you, especially when you say things like “I’m a little tan now” based on the previous posts we’ve had discussing tanning. The difference is that this kind of threat towards someone like you has no weight behind it, unlike the 9 year old girl who was recently kidnapped and held in ICE custody for multiple days. I’m only saying this because I know you are dedicated to educating yourself about racism and being a better ally and want to do the best you can.