Hi this is kinda dumb imo, but I recently started thinking about post nut clarity and early into our relationship, he told me he would tend to get it. At first I didn’t quite understand what it meant and I also didn’t understand why he acted so different after having sex, but it would make me feel so unloved and unwanted. Idk why I’m thinking abt this now since I don’t even know if he gets them anymore, but could post but clarity mean he isn’t into me as much as he thinks he is? To add to that, I tried to google more abt it and came upon a Reddit post but this time it was the guy explaining that he would get pcn afterwards and many of the comments would mention things like, “she isn’t the one” “it seems you don’t actually like her, and only want her for sex” and others along the lines of that. I know this is fairly dumb to worry over but I’m such an overthinker and I know this is going to bother me until I get some sort of answer. I do plan on having an honest conversation abt this but I just want to get some input on it first before I bring it up. Plus, this could just be me overthinking at 3am.

Honestly I’m unsure if he still does it now, I haven’t paid that much attention but before he wouldn’t be affectionate after and would feel a bit distant. Again, I haven’t been paying too much attention but I’ll definitely try to.

My boyfriend says he always feels weird after he finishes, he says he starts to regret every decision he’s ever made. I don’t think it’s worth overthinking it that much, some guys just get like that