Please tell me girls is that ok and I’m overreacting? It’s the first time that a man massages me. I had a back pain recently and my doctor prescribed me a massage course and physiotherapy. My physiotherapist is a man and first time the message and exercises went well. Second time they directed me to another room which was downstairs and felt like basement, they had a room their for Fango (thermal pads) and message. I did the Fango, a girl prepared it for me. And the my physiotherapist came and started massaging my back, this time he went further to my neck even from the front, and my lower back and the he hardly pointed to a muscle point on my glutes so I felt a bit sore but was shocked that he touched me there without asking me. And then asked me to set up and messaged again my upper back and neck then went to the shoulders and also from the front and I felt he’s touching my upper chest indirectly.

And another question if next time he went further touching my body, would I allow him if I like it ? Or that’s bad for me!?? I kind of liked it a bit but I’m overwhelmed Idk.

I think I’ve only ever had massages by women but that sounds pretty normal. I have been asked if there’s anywhere I don’t want massaging at the start though a couple times.

That’s good when someone is asked before! For me I couldn’t identify if that was professional or not as I wasn’t asked before. But maybe if I was asked and I allowed him, it felt more normal to me so I don’t panic or get nervous.

Thanks a lot @AWg1

And changing to a basement room made me feel nervous too! Like no one can hear you there! My mind was overloaded with bad thoughts about what could happen.