Hi girls, so I’ve been seeing this guy for a over a month now but he’s been ignoring my messages lately and leaving me on delivered for days. I’m considering blocking him because I have feelings for him and his inconsistency is really hurting me. Is that the right move?

It’s your choice but I personally would remove him from my life. You need to protect your peace, and trust me girl he is one (1) man out of billions. You’ll get over him and find someone that actually cares about your time and respects yoi

Thank you, I just don’t want him to think he ‘won’ because I blocked him but I feel like it’s the right decision

I think I’d personally send him a message very briefly explaining that I no longer want to continue talking to him. Especially if you’ve been talking a while and you’re a bit invested I think it’s a bit rude and immature to just block with no explanation.

^Yeah I’d just tell him you don’t see this going anywhere so you think it’s best not to continue talking.

Is communicating honestly not an option? Why not explain that you need more consistent communication and replies from him to feel that he's invested in you? I agree that blocking without explanation is immature and potentially equally hurtful to him as he's been to you. Dating is not a game, you don't need to "win"