Ladies… my bf and I had sex today. Didn’t use protection I know bit stupid but I’m on the pill. First time without condom just testing different ways as we keep on breaking condoms. When I tell you few hours after I have slight bleeding and pain. I tell you painnnn!!! It’s like stinging as if I’ve stretched too much. Could this be the reason I go back to condoms ? Potentially as this hasn’t been an issue while using condoms. I do recommend that you wear protection. I know I’ve done a bad example but this was my rant over with. Comment with other experiences I’d love to hear them!!

Stinging most likely means there wasn’t enough lubrication and so there was friction, so you have tiny cuts/friction burns down there. Potentially the lube on condoms usually prevents that. Are you on the pill or anything?

Hiya im thinking that maybe you could use some lube nect time? condoms have lubrication , could of just been abit frictiony and dry (not in a bad way)!!!! hope this helps. and also dont be ashamed that you and your partner are having sex without using a condom on the pill, you guys are obviously trusting in that and loving x

^ sorry I missed the part where you said you’re on the pill lol It’s not stupid, and you did use protection (pregnancy wise), the pill is your protection!

yes no shame in using lube! everyone uses it sometimes

You’re not being stupid for having sex without a condom. If you use your pills correctly you won’t get pregnant, but it is good to both get tested for STI/STD in 2-3 weeks just to rule things out for the future. As for the other thing, I also recommend using lube to reduce friction

Did you get a lot of foreplay (20-30+ mins) before mostly focused on clitoral stuff?

@Awg1 yeah we do I end up quite sore after as he is quite big for me. He never goes too far and is always checking up on me. During it im fine I don’t feel any pain it’s always hours after and my body gets sore (sorry if it’s TMI)