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Nov 6 19
04:31
This sounds kinda dumb, but I really like this guy and don’t know how to get him to notice me THAT way since we’re friends.
 
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Nov 6 19
04:36
I’d be straight up to him
 
Nov 6 19
04:44
Me too, I’d be honest about it
 
Nov 6 19
05:38
It's best to talk to him about it
 
Nov 6 19
06:44
The moment you communicate that you have feelings toward him like that, he will consider you in /that/ way if he hasn’t already
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Nov 6 19
07:54
If you guys are friends I wouldn’t recommend just going and telling him, could potentially ruin the friendship or make it extremely awkward if he doesn’t feel the same way. Unless there are those obvious signs when a guy likes you such as, always looking at you, interested in what you’re saying, etc. Then by all means tell him! I suggest trying to impress him or always listening to when he’s talking and asking questions (if there should be lol)..smiling and making eye contact is a big thing too. If your other friends are friends with him too, ask them if they could “hype you up” to him such as saying things like “she’s so pretty” or just stuff to make you look better in his eyes.
 
Nov 6 19
13:11
It shouldn't ruin a friendship if he's mature enough about it. If he doesn't like you back, he'll just reject you and you'll have to move on emotionally. Romantic feelings between friends can happen, it's not unnatural. Things will only be ruined if you don't take the rejection the right way. That's why communication is probably a good idea. If you tell him upfront, like hey I have some feelings for you, not only will it likely take a load off your shoulders, but also you'll be able to see what he thinks about it. It's a little exhausting to play games to try and impress him and get his attention because he likely won't get it since you're just a friend in his eyes. It's also extremely easy to misinterpret behaviour; just because he looks at you a certain way or is listening to you it doesn't mean that he's romantically invested. It often happens that if you like someone you see him in another light, therefore skewing the reality that he probably isn't into you like that (yet?). If y'all don't talk, it'll just be a mess of misinterpretations.
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