I started having sex with a guy of my friendgroup two months. A few weeks ago a friend of mine told me secretly that she has a crush on him. She knows she doesn’t have any chance, since he doesn’t want a relationship rn or has interest in her. She told me that I should help her to loose that crush and give her the ick of him. She also told me she hopes that he will find a girlfriend soon, so she can move on. In this moment I couldn’t tell her that I slept with him a couple of times, since I know he wouldn’t want that to be public. I also debated whether I should stop sleeping with him or not. A few days ago we had sex again twice and I don’t know if I’m the a**hole here or not. Please give me some advice on what to do…

Personally this is why I don't have sex with people in my friend group. You're not the asshole though, you sleeping with him doesn't like destroy your friend's chances of being with him if as you said he's not interested in relationship and she's trying to move on anyway. That said, it could get out and would probably hurt your friend's feelings, and since it's just casual sex and not serious, I'd probably stop.

You’re not the a-hole, you had sex with him before even knowing about her feelings, but I think it would be wise to look for a casual partner outside of your friend groups, things usually get messy 😅

@Yi_eune I just feel bad because I continued to sleep with him even tho I knew. Is that reprehensible?

@ilyssa29 no, I don’t think it is. It’s not like you intentionally went “after him” simply because she has a crush on him. Crushes aren’t that serious. You have nothing to feel bad about, but if word gets out your friend might not feel that way and it may damage your friendship (especially since you weren’t honest with her as you’re keeping it a secret).