Ok so idk if anyone seen my last post, I am trying to break up with him but he keeps saying that he’s fighting for me and wants me to see how much he cares and I’m feeling trapped like I can’t breakup with him. I feel really stressed. How can I do this with him respecting my decision

You can’t control how he reacts. Just be firm with him, tell him it’s over, and to stop contacting you.

@Lemongrass_ I just worry for his mental state and couldn’t live with myself if anything happened to him

As rough as it sounds, it’s not your problem. Like I said before, you can’t control what he does and you shouldn’t stay in a relationship out of fear that he will do something. Have you considered speaking to a therapist/mental health professional regarding this?

He’s trying to manipulate you into staying with him. He’s not going to do anything to himself and if he does it’s really not your problem. Tell him you’re breaking up with him and immediately block him on all social media and block his phone number. Don’t unblock him afterwards.

He’s just saying I don’t need to do this and is questioning why I’m not fighting for him

Now I feel bad :/

You can feel bad and not entertain him. If you actually want to break up with him then do it and cease all contact.

These are classic manipulation tactics.

@maeve_ Its hard to see when you’re in the situation

I’m asking myself, do I need to fight for this

Yes which is why it’s good you’re asking for help here so that third party people who can see it can tell you.

But I really just don’t want to be with him anymore because of what he’s been doing recently. And I think that’s okay. Or is it not?

You don’t.

Any reason for not wanting to be with someone is valid. You don’t need to justify it to us, to him, or to yourself.

@maeve_ thank you for your support in this.

If you decide to end the relationship then you have ended the relationship. He doesn’t have to agree or accept it. If you say it’s over, it’s over regardless of what he thinks or wants. He is manipulating you. Stop talking to him.

Yet another red flag and a reason to leave him. You don't need to fight for someone you haven't even been dating 6 months.

This relationship is toxic. Respect yourself and end it once and for all.