Good morning, how would you guys feel if your boyfriend is buying only fans ?

I definitely wouldn’t be ok with it.

I sneaked through his phone and I did my investigation and I ended up on his only fans and he’s been purchasing.

i wouldn’t be okay with my bf doing that, it would be a dealbreaker for me. it’s one thing to watch free porn, but to seek out a pay for a specific person, not okay with me

I would actually prefer that my boyfriend pay for his adult content so that sex workers are compensated for their work, it's more ethical than free porn.

Now how do I confront him with what I have found ?

I personally would not be okay with it, I agree with greenwitch’s comment.

@Bear_Bear did you guys ever discuss onlyfans, porn, and what you're comfortable with in a relationship?

Why did you feel the need to go through his phone?

dump him rn!

As long as he’s not interacting with the person & he doesn’t know them/know of them in real life I wouldn’t care. It’s more respectful to sex workers.

I wouldn’t be okay with it at all but it’s about how YOU feel about it.