Hey guysss okay so basically I have had this friend group for like 5 years now and we have all been super close. This Halloween they are having a party however I’m the only one who hasn’t been invited out of loads of people including people they don’t even like! I’m confused and obviously really upset by it because I have no clue what I have done wrong as before that we have all been fine and as normal. We are all still messaging as normal and stuff but I’m not sure what to do because I feel horrible. Another thing like this happened a few months ago so I just feel betrayed and upset. I don’t want to talk to them about it because they are the type of people to just get angry by it but I also want to know if I have done anything wrong. I don’t wanna just like distance myself as well because I feel like I’m losing all my friends I have so I don’t want to end up with nobody.

Just to add aswell, they haven’t been acting different or wierd with me like they asked me if I wanted to go out with them the next day so I just feel like they don’t want me there maybe? I’m not sure why though because I haven’t done anything and they aren’t acting like I have! Ugh idk

If they get angry when you raise a concern they aren't really good friends and probably not worth keeping close in your life. You should be able to raise things with your friends and resolve them. Are you certain they didn't just assume you were invited and forgot to tell you?

@Sunrise777 do they know you know about the party? If so maybe they just forgot to say outright like reply above??

@aurielle I’m not sure, they might of forgot but even then like I’m there closest friends so like it’s still wierd. Also they are talking about the party to my face so I’m assuming they haven’t forgot that I’m not invited

@hellok1tty they know that I KNEO about the party, but they also know I’m not invited so it’s really confusing

I think it's best to be direct and just clear things up. When they talk about the party, say "hey I didn't get an invite, just wondering if I should come or not."