What would you do if your partner wet the bed from drinking too much alcohol more than a few times? I’m concerned and I know he’s embarrassed about it but I don’t know if it’s something I should talk to him about

How many times is more than a few times?

Are you sleeping in the bed with him? If the answer is yes, then, I kinda believe it is okay to talk with him about...

@bluerose9 Maybe just a few times then, I’d say in the time we’ve been dating it’s happened 4 times

@SugarWitch_ yes I do sleep next to him and when it happens he’s very embarrassed about it and we go to the couch and he apologizes in the morning

@sandytoes18 I feel it’s reasonable to talk with him about it. Maybe for drinking nights y’all can prep the bed!!...with a pee pad or something. At least this way, the urine is not all over the place, or staining the mattress. I get that it can be embarrassing, but it can’t continue not being talked about, especially if you’re sleeping in there. Something that is machine washable, fabric and absorbed urine!

I do that every so often lol, it’s literally something I can’t help😂 If your bothered then just sleep in a separate bed/sofa when he’s drinking or get a pad like @sugarwitch_ said

How long have you been together?

I think the issue here is his consumption of alcohol no? He should drink less and maybe sleep separately if he thinks it might happen again.

@uncrushablep Tbf it’s happened to me before when I didn’t even drink lots

@awg1 I’ve never been drunk lmao, but I know it makes you piss like crazy

I think it’s totally reasonable to talk about it with him so you can find a solution

@uncrushablep normally it’s fine it’s only every so often randomly😂 it’s a family trait as a few of us have done it😂

it’s totally normal to talk about! it doesn’t have to be something that either of you feel embarrassed about, you’re just communicating about something that you may need to make a change to address.

I sometimes sleep naked, and I had a dream that I was in the restroom and I peed. Super embarrassing and yes I was drunk. But I woke up and I woke my bf up. I peed a lot! I was so embarrassed that I cried. He was kind and helped me clean. Luckily it was my day off next day so I just went to buy a new mattress I was so embarrassed.