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Nov 19
17:02
What would you do if your partner wet the bed from drinking too much alcohol more than a few times? I’m concerned and I know he’s embarrassed about it but I don’t know if it’s something I should talk to him about
 
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Nov 19
17:04
How many times is more than a few times?
 
Nov 19
17:06
Are you sleeping in the bed with him? If the answer is yes, then, I kinda believe it is okay to talk with him about...
 
Nov 19
17:09
@bluerose9 Maybe just a few times then, I’d say in the time we’ve been dating it’s happened 4 times
 
Nov 19
17:10
@SugarWitch_ yes I do sleep next to him and when it happens he’s very embarrassed about it and we go to the couch and he apologizes in the morning
 
Nov 19
17:15
@sandytoes18 I feel it’s reasonable to talk with him about it. Maybe for drinking nights y’all can prep the bed!!...with a pee pad or something. At least this way, the urine is not all over the place, or staining the mattress. I get that it can be embarrassing, but it can’t continue not being talked about, especially if you’re sleeping in there. Something that is machine washable, fabric and absorbed urine!
 
Nov 19
17:17
I do that every so often lol, it’s literally something I can’t help😂 If your bothered then just sleep in a separate bed/sofa when he’s drinking or get a pad like @sugarwitch_ said
 
Nov 19
17:17
How long have you been together?
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Nov 19
17:21
I think the issue here is his consumption of alcohol no? He should drink less and maybe sleep separately if he thinks it might happen again.
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Nov 19
17:55
@uncrushablep Tbf it’s happened to me before when I didn’t even drink lots
 
Nov 19
18:31
@awg1 I’ve never been drunk lmao, but I know it makes you piss like crazy
 
Nov 19
19:13
I think it’s totally reasonable to talk about it with him so you can find a solution
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Nov 19
22:41
@uncrushablep normally it’s fine it’s only every so often randomly😂 it’s a family trait as a few of us have done it😂
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Nov 20
02:37
it’s totally normal to talk about! it doesn’t have to be something that either of you feel embarrassed about, you’re just communicating about something that you may need to make a change to address.
 
Nov 20
07:42
I sometimes sleep naked, and I had a dream that I was in the restroom and I peed. Super embarrassing and yes I was drunk. But I woke up and I woke my bf up. I peed a lot! I was so embarrassed that I cried. He was kind and helped me clean. Luckily it was my day off next day so I just went to buy a new mattress I was so embarrassed.
 

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