What would you do if your partner wet the bed from drinking too much alcohol more than a few times? I’m concerned and I know he’s embarrassed about it but I don’t know if it’s something I should talk to him about

How many times is more than a few times?

Are you sleeping in the bed with him? If the answer is yes, then, I kinda believe it is okay to talk with him about...

@bluerose9 Maybe just a few times then, I’d say in the time we’ve been dating it’s happened 4 times

@SugarWitch_ yes I do sleep next to him and when it happens he’s very embarrassed about it and we go to the couch and he apologizes in the morning

@sandytoes18 I feel it’s reasonable to talk with him about it. Maybe for drinking nights y’all can prep the bed!!...with a pee pad or something. At least this way, the urine is not all over the place, or staining the mattress. I get that it can be embarrassing, but it can’t continue not being talked about, especially if you’re sleeping in there. Something that is machine washable, fabric and absorbed urine!

I think the issue here is his consumption of alcohol no? He should drink less and maybe sleep separately if he thinks it might happen again.

@awg1 I’ve never been drunk lmao, but I know it makes you piss like crazy

I think it’s totally reasonable to talk about it with him so you can find a solution

it’s totally normal to talk about! it doesn’t have to be something that either of you feel embarrassed about, you’re just communicating about something that you may need to make a change to address.