Question! How do you reduce pain after penetrative sex? It’s nothing to do with the roughness or lack of lubrication, and it feels amazing while doing the deed. But a few minutes afterwards, i get this pain on like the outer entrance to the canal and it can last a while. Any tips to reduce its intensity?

If you are feeling pain then it is too rough or you're not properly aroused, or it's a medical issue and you should see a doctor.

See a doctor

I should go for my first gyno appointment relatively soon so I’ll book it early and bring it up.