So my boyfriends coworker watched our dog for a day which I am grateful for! But she made a weird comment when we dropped the dog off. The dog was sniffing under the table and got a hold of a men’s shaving razor. She then laughed and said to my boyfriend “is this yours?”… like why would my boyfriends face razor be at your place. I ignored it, bothered me a little bit to say that in front of his girlfriend. When we came home, he asked if I wanted to come pick up the dog with him, I said no since I was tired. She lives like 5 minutes away and he left for almost 50 minutes. He said he brought her beer and stuff. I wasn’t feeling well either, so I just think it’s weird he left for that long especially while I’m not feeling well. Like were you sitting there drinking beer with her while I’m at home not feeling good? Am I being dramatic?

Yes a bit. It's a kind gesture to bring beer for someone who watched your dog, I often will get alcohol or some kind of gift for friends who pet-sit. If you weren't feeling well and wanted him to spend more time with you, you needed to communicate that.

@auRIelle I get that, do you think it’s weird that he was gone for an hour when she lives 5 minutes away?

@Emotal nope, I would just assume they got caught up chatting and didn't realize how the time had passed. Is this the female coworker you had issues with before? Is that why you're suspicious?

Yeah it is, I realize I need to let that go. He has other female friends but I’m not suspicious of them at all and actually really good friends with one now.

Also, the razor comment is weird to me.

I think your distrust of this coworker is causing you to overthink the comment

the razor comment is odd and would irk me. i assume they just got caught up chatting and he gave beer as a thank you. but it would be a little annoying him knowing you’re at home not feeling well and he took that long

The razor bit is weird imo but sometimes people say weird stuff lol I think you’re overthinking the rest though

The razor comment would throw me off. I’d ask him honestly.

@bANanass true, what would I ask? I already told him it threw me off and he said does it make you suspicious? And I said I trust you. But it still bothers me internally.

@Emotal that is weird he would ask if it makes you suspicious unless that was already brought up

@gREENwitch why do you think that’s weird

@Emotal i guess because he is insinuating that is is suspicious by saying it lol! but idk probably just thinking too much into it

@Emotal Maybe have an honest conversation about your feelings. If you do truly trust him these actions wouldn’t make you feel this way. Hanging out with his friend afterwards for longer doesn’t seem like an issue. And your previous posts, so far, it doesn’t seem like the things that he’s doing are suspicious.