I really need input and advice. I feel like I am so easy to get and all men want from me is sex. I was always searching for a relationship but it always ends up in sexual relations because that’s all the guy wants with me. I also have horrible attachment issues. I feel that I am always seeking for validation and my happiness almost depends on it and when the person leaves I break and the cycle continues. I want to change myself and work on myself because I don’t want to be easy and give myself to guys. If anyone knows what steps I can take to work on myself and stop this please let me know.
Dec 2 22 21:29
Have you sought professional therapy?
Dec 2 22 21:30
Take a break from dating others and date yourself. Do things alone and learn to enjoy your own company. Give yourself all the love, kindness, gentle treatment, quality time and attention you seek from others.
Dec 2 22 21:31
@Kitarah I have never been to professional therapy but I think it would be beneficial. I have been through a lot of pain with my mom and it caused many abandonment issues and I think this is why I get so attached. Therapy has always scared me as it’s just easier to learn to live with it.
Dec 2 22 21:31
@aurielle Thank you for the advice I appreciate it.
Dec 2 22 21:37
Don’t have that kind of mindset that it’s easier to learn to live with it. You’re suffering, and I think you would really benefit from seeing someone who can help you
Dec 3 22 20:24
Dang I felt this
Dec 5 22 03:05
@Kitarah Thank you this helped a lot i think i will seek help