My boyfriend is going on holiday from the 18-23 and I am sad and scared I don’t know what to do without him I struggle even spending one day apart 🫩

This is a good opportunity to build some independence. Keep yourself busy by planning lots of activities while he is away. Could be with family or friends and/or hobbies and solo dates. It's important not to depend on just one person for your happiness. Your life is worth enjoying on its own too.

You’ve posted about this dependence on your boyfriend a few months back: {VNNv-1CTP} What have you done since to work on your independent since then? Because it sounds like it only got worse

Well I used to not be able to spend days with out him at all like I’d just sit and bed and rot but I have now started to do other things so that’s good ig?

@Lovleygirl23 definitely improvement there, but struggling to spend one or a few days apart is a big warning sign. Try and work on it more, I think its good he is gone for a few days, so you can focus on yourself. Try and keep that going even when he gets back. Keep your activities outside of your relationship going.

I agree it’s the perfect time to really work on your independence. Do hobbies you enjoy, try new ones, see friends etc. Also keep giving yourself space from him even after the holiday to do those things so that next time will be really easy.