hi guys, just wondering if anyone can relate to me or give me any advice. So me and my bf have been together nearly 2 years and we are so healthy and everything is good. However, i always feel like something is wrong. It’s not that he does anything wrong and even when we are having a normal conversation i still inside of me feel like something is up. Why does something always have to feel wrong even when nothing is wrong at all?

sorry just a little pt2 bc i forgot to say some stuff. Another example is just that i always question the what ifs and dwell on then when i so badly just want to accept things that happen and not think it’s immediately going to make us break up or him stop loving me

Sounds like you have some level of anxiety or anxious thoughts. It would be really beneficial to speak to a therapist about this!

I’ve had those feelings before and it’s pretty normal. You do sound like you have anxiety as well even from my experience. It’s best to just talk to him on what you think is making you anxious. And find ways to distract yourself from not trynna self sabotage as much. Try to do new things together. It helps a lot when you talk to them for some reassurance to see how everything is going :). 6 years strong in mine and I have improved from what you are also experiencing

And also if nothing wronged has happened you’ll be okay as long as theirs no red flags going on to make you think that way to.