Any advice! So I matched with a guy on hinge not too long ago and instantly he was really confident and was sending me voice notes which I like because im quite a shy person so he instantly made me feel comfortable and brought me out of my shell. Anyway we were messaging back and forth and decided to FaceTime that same day we matched and honestly we were so comfortable with each other it’s weird. About 2 days later he took me on a date and it was so lovely! We had a great time and shared a kiss. Which was great. We both agreed to see each other again which we did and then we have another meet tomorrow. I must admit it’s going really great and we have both said we can feel a connection. He has opened up a lot to me and said that in the past he can get attached to people quickly and that can put people off. I guess I just want to know what the signs of lovebombing are because he’s a sweet sweet guy and I genuinely really like him but I don’t want to get hurt. I’ve been hurt so much in the past and really don’t want to get hurt again but equally I don’t want to self sabotage. Any advice?

Signs of love bombing would be them doing grand gestures or making big commitments early on like talking about your kids together, getting married to you etc., being really full on with their feelings to you, buying very expensive gifts or a holiday early on. As long as it seems like he’s making effort to see you but isn’t making you his whole life then that’s good {dxdxRkNs2}

How long has it been? Just be sure to get to know each other first. Seems like you’re both moving a bit fast and you’re already growing wary. Seems like you feel it’s moving too fast.

A healthy attachment will move at a pace that feels organic and comfortable. In general I think if you're getting that "swept off your feet" feeling and you think it's going too fast, it probably is. Ask yourself how much you genuinely know him as a person right now- sounds like it's been just a week or two? And take it slower if you need to.