I need to break up with my boyfriend cause he hasn’t wanted to see me in near enough 3 weeks and barely talking to me and I just don’t have the heart or know the right words to say or do anything I need help

have you spoken about seeing each other?

@blisseyxo_ I’ve said to him about meeting and he just blows me off and says no he’s not ready? Cause the passed 2 weeks so far he’s said he needs space but he has talked to me abit throughout the weeks it been the past 2 days he has said nothing and I’m just ready to end it and said to him I want to meet up tomorrow but he hasn’t said anything but I know he’s seen it

I mean if he said he wants space then it’s understandable that he wants some space? Has he told you why he wants space? Space can be good for relationships and 3 weeks really is not that long especially if he is going through something. How old are you both?

@blisseyxo_ that’s the thing he hasn’t told me why and has left me hanging so much when I’ve tried to ask him and get him to communicate to me, I’m 23 and he’s 24

I mean if there is no reason as to why he hasn’t seen or spoken to you in the past 3 weeks I’d be worried too. I don’t think I could handle it without some sort of explanation. But basically ghosting your gf? There’s gotta be some type of communication. Something to ease your mind.

@stinaaa don’t even start me my hearts broke and I keep crying 💔😓

@stinaaa if he explained to me why and I could then understand then defo but he hasn’t said anything which is hurting me more

I would try to communicate with him again and if that doesn’t work consider breaking it off.

@blisseyxo_ I’m hoping to see him tomorrow and if it doesn’t work I’m gonna have to end things but I don’t want to end things over text that’s the thing😓

Was there maybe a fight? In the end you have to do what is best for you. If he is not able to communicate now, how about years down the road. Is this the relationship you want to have? You deserve someone better who can communicate with you. I believe communication is critical in a relationship. I’m sorry you’re going through this. You will be okay 🩷

@stinaaa not that I know of but my friends are saying the exact same thing, it breaks my heart cause I love him to absolute pieces and wanted a future with him, at one point I was gonna look past it but now I just don’t know if I have the energy anymore for it😓💔 I appreciate everything you have said xo

Good luck ❤️

I know this is stupid guys but, he sent me a snap, to clearly keep our streak, does that mean anything? Or am I just blowing things outta proportion

@Banana4421 sending you a snapchat is not the same as actual communication.

That’s not the type of communication you looking for.

I know I just mean if he didn’t care at all why he bothering to keep the streak I know it’s not acc communication

Ultimately it’s your decision if you want to read into that or not. Just because you don’t communicate doesn’t mean you don’t care. Sure he can care. But does he care enough? Are you willing to accept this is how you’ll be treated in the relationship with him. A snap streak. You think that’s worth saving?

@stinaaa no I still don’t think it’s worth saving😓 still hurts tho

I know hun. But you are worth SOOO much more. Keep repeating that to yourself. There is better out there. The end of this chapter will just be the beginning of a new one. You deserve to be cared for a listened to in the way you want. Not like this.

@Banana4421 but keeping a snapchat streak alive is such a minimal amount of caring. I don't think it's important enough to mean anything or to change your decision.

I’d be fuming if my boyfriend was basically ignoring me and then just sent me a snap for streaks, is he 24 or 14? He cares more about streaks than communicating with you? Ew

Streaks are just cringe to me as is so maybe I’m biased cus of that 💀