i just had some terrible hookup sex and i feel crazy weird. all consensual and whatnot but lacked any care for my pleasure. like the sex just stops after he’s done, of course, and i’m laying there trying to finish myself off without shame. i ask for his help and he ~changes it up~ right as it’s getting good than straight up stops, rolls over, and hints at me to leave. this just sucks. especially after experiencing what great sex can be and going through the process of finding that again. i’m sick of it and definitely ending things with that immature man child. not sure how constructive this is but i need to vent

I’ve experienced this before and guys not being considerate. I learned to block them and say good riddance! You can find better elsewhere. And if they have a problem with it, be honest and tell him it was disappointing to humble him lol.

Unfortunately that happens. I’ve experienced it and yeah I felt hella weird after. Used. Gross. Disappointed. Like why did I do that. But you live and you learn. You learn what if feels like to not enjoy sex with someone and then are able to avoid that situation next time it arises. There’s great sex. And not so great sex. But I’m glad it was all consensual. Sorry it ended badly. Def block that inconsiderate mofo. Bleh!

It’s shocking how many men are like this. I’ve stopped having sex with guys who don’t give head & at least put a lot of effort into making me orgasm before PIV even starts.