Do you always fantasize about your partner?

Not always. Sometimes I fantasize about fictional characters, celebrities or it’s just a man with a blank face lol

Yes. I am 100% loyal and don’t need a reason to fantasize about others when thinking about him gets the job done.

@Angel420 so you think it’s not being loyal to have a mental fantasy about someone other than your partner?

I don’t think it’s necessarily cheating but in my opinion it’s disrespectful.

I think it’s completely human to have fantasies outside of your own relationship. No relationship can fully satisfy every single fantasy. You’re not any less loyal just because you mentally fantasise about something that excites you. At the end of the day it’s not real, it would be “fictional”.

i think it depends on how your relationship dynamic is. everybody is diffrent and you have to keep that in mind. if you wouldnt feel comfortable with your boyfriend doing that to another girl, then maybe you should take an revaluation at approaches you are taking in your relationship. it is completely normal in my opinion to have fantasies about somebody outside of your relationship as long as you dont act on them.

@Yi_eune would you say this is the same as like if you fantasized about someone “real” like that you know in your personal life

I think just as human beings we all have a right to privacy regarding our thoughts. It’s really concerning the level of policing and control some people want to have over their partner where they want to police even their thoughts and imagination. I’ve never asked any of my partners if they’ve fantasized about anyone else because it’s truly never crossed my mind and I honestly don’t care if he does. What matters to me is that he doesn’t act on it. He can fantasize about Rihanna til kingdom come but I know it doesn’t mean anything, he’s never going to meet her, she’s never going to have sex with him lol it’s innocent. Honestly, I think a lot of times some people set themselves up to become upset or to pick a fight.

@maeve_ I totally agree. I read some relationship articles about how if you fantasize about another person that isn’t your partner that it can jeopardize your relationship. And I was like well crap because I’ve fantasized about celebrities, people I know, randoms and like that’s all lol

yes i have too. but i have never felt like it was cheating or anything. its not like those thoughts are ever going to be real and as long as you are staying loyal to your partner, you shouldnt have to feel guilty about anything.

Not always - especially since Hunt Athalar and Rhysand exist 🫣😂 ifykyk

@Mortie21 same but with Cassian and Azriel. And Draco Malfoy 🙂‍↕️

If you’re referring to manacled I’ve gotta read it! I’ve heard nothing but great things!!! @mAeve_ I also loveeeeee Cassian and Azriel🦇 the bat boys are just built different

Manacled is amazing but definitely check the TW! It’s super, super dark but so so so good.

@Sparkles14 not a problem. In that case it would still be “fiction” as it is not real.

Absolutely not lol

I do, but I only really feel attracted to people if I’m close with them romantically. So thinking about anyone else just doesn’t do anything for me, but my partner certainly does.