So I am in the process of getting divorced from my husband and about 6 months ago I met a guy who I know really like. I really didn't want to like anyone for a while and this is scary. As much as I tried avoiding liking him it just happened. I really don't what to do

What has happened?

You get to decide if you're ready to get involved with someone new. Just because you like someone doesn't mean you have to pursue a relationship with them. If you want more time to focus on yourself and heal then you can choose to take that. Crushes and feelings don't control our choices. That said if you also do more reflection and decide you are emotionally ready you can do that! It's entirely within your control.