OPINIONS: is it controlling to ask your partner to stop watching p*rn?
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Jun 29 16:14
It can be controlling if they don’t want to stop. If you’re trying to change their behaviour then definitely yes.
Nothing wrong with watching it personally I would never ask someone to do something if I do it myself.
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Jun 29 16:25
Depends whether you’re okay with the answer being no to that question.
Why do you want your partner to stop?
Jun 29 17:18
It definitely isn’t controlling I think if you aren’t okay with it then ur partner should respect that.
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Jun 29 18:23
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Jun 29 18:59
it really depends, are they addicted to watching it? is it affecting your sex life? if there is a big issue, that would have to be a conversation. if you simply just dont like it, you can express it to them but ultimately its up to them and could be controlling
Jun 29 19:30
Yes it’s controlling.
Jun 29 19:33
Yes.
Jun 29 19:39
Yes I think it’s controlling to demand anyone, partner or family member or friend, to do/not do anything.
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Jun 30 01:14
I feel like I am in the same boat. Found out my husband still does it and I get upset. Before we were married, I can see doing it because we weren't always together. Now it makes me feel bad when I find out he does it and I am in the same house. Even if we had sex a couple days ago. So idk how to feel about it. Thinking on talking to him if he makes it a habit.
Jun 30 20:14
I think watching porn is actually really disrespectful and he should try understand how you feel
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Jul 2 07:56
Yess controlling, but if your partner is addicted to it i wouldnt see that as bad