has anyone here moved out of state for their partner? if so was it a good idea for you

I moved out because of my ex about 4 years ago to live with him, but it didn’t work out because he was already living a different life when I came to him. However, I think that it can work out if you both work for it. It can be a big decision with both challenges and rewards. I just felt like I didn’t fit in his country, and it was really hard for me to find a job. Ultimately, the decision should be based on your individual circumstances and what feels right for you and your relationship. It's important to have open and honest communication with your partner to ensure that both of your needs and expectations are being met.

It depends on a lot of things, a few to think of are: • How secure are you within your relationship? • Does the move benefit you in any way? • Do you even want to move that far in the first place? What about your life, family and friends you leave behind. Are you okay with that? • Will you be able to sustain yourself in case things go south?

I haven't but multiple partners have moved out of state with me for my education and job. I always offered the option of trying long distance for some period of time but ultimately it was at a good point for their careers to transition too so they decided to move with me. Agree with @Yi_eune? On some level you should want to move and not just do it because you don't want to be apart from your partner. Make sure it's a place you're comfortable moving to and that you can have a support system there that isn't only you partner.