Is it normal for a guy to only focus on himself during sex? for context, i’ve been with my partner for two years now and we have a relatively normal sex life. however, there’s just one thing. sex is always about him. any sexual acts is always about him. i am never on the receiving end of anything unless it’s during actual intercourse, and i’ve communicated it to him so many times and he’s apologised and said he would make sure i would be satisfied next time, but it just never changes. i wondered if it was a hygiene thing at first, so i made sure i was clean down there and shaved and whatnot, but idk. he said it’s not a case of him being uncomfortable, he genuinely just “forgets”. it’s making me really unsatisfied and communicating it to him hasn’t changed anything. any tips?

Break up.

Nope that's not normal, it's called being selfish! You asked clearly and he still isn't doing it, it means he doesn't want to! I can't imagine 2 years of not getting any sexual satisfaction, please don't waste any more of your time on that.

He’s “forgotten” to not be selfish for even a second for two entire years???? Please dump this silly man, he doesn’t actually care about you

This makes me genuinely pissed. That’s so terrible and just lazy. Selfish for sure but just lazy. What else is he doing he can’t ’remember’ to also make sure you’re taken care of… like others said, I’d break up.

🙅🏽‍♀️❌🚩🤢🤮👎🏽🚮 traaaashhh! No it’s not normal for a Loving partner that Cares about you to do that!! 😩 leave that selfish boy! He’s using your body for his own pleasure. You deserve attention and oral and orgasms everyday 😭

@stinaaa love this