okay so i need opinions or something. so whenever me and my boyfriend have sex, i usually don't finish (because i don't try to) but when i do, and he keeps going it really starts to hurt/burn, and then the next day it still hurts and starts almost like peeling??? is this normal?? what do i do☹️

What are you guys actually doing? Are you guys using any lubrication? The only way I could see it hurt is if you don’t

I’d say maybe try lubrication and see if that helps in any way could be due to where it’s lasting longer!

@Yi_eune literally just sex, we have used lube before, and it always feels very lubricated, this only happens when i finish.

Peeling and burning definitely sounds like dryness, pain after sex shouldn’t be normal, there may be something you can do to help, maybe try more external stimulation rather than penetration to help you finish?

@hellok1tty that's what i do:( i use my finger to stimulate externally to finish, that's the only way i can finish, but it starts to hurt right after. i can go for as long as i want to with no pain if i don't finish, but as soon as i finish it starts to hurt.

@kelps I find it a bit uncomfortable if I finish before penetration, even with lube, that’s why my partner makes me finish after! Or we wait a longer time so my body had some time to “recharge”. Works just fine for us.