Hey, random and this might seem strange. How many times do you guys usually have sex? Me and my boyfriend are curious to what I guess is in the norm because we have sex at-least 3 times a day usually, sometimes more sometimes less etc. but we can’t seem to stop we just always have sex, we say we’re gonna take a week off of sex because its become a normal thing and we want it to be special but we just can’t get enough of each other. What do i do? How many times approximately do you guys have intercourse ?

And by a day, i meant like, every single day of the week

There is no “normal”. As long as you’re both happy, comfortable and satisfied I don’t think there’s an issue. I don’t think having more sex necessarily makes it less special. Just because it’s more “normal” doesn’t mean it’s less meaningful but if you feel like you’re doing nothing but having sex then maybe you need to organise more dates and activities to do to spend more quality time together. I don’t see my boyfriend everyday and we don’t always have sex when I do see him, so probably like twice, max 3 times a week. Personally 3 times a day would be wayyyy too much for me lol

Theres nothing wrong with having sex lots as long as you’re both happy with it. The only thing I’d see as ‘concerning’..is if you don’t live with each other but are seeing each other everyday as that’s a little excessive x

@Awg1 yeah we live together, but like lets say i go home for a day. I come back and idk we just crave each other alot more. Like even a day break makes us miss each others touch if that makes sense

Everyone’s preferences and sex drives are different so there’s no norm for amount of times you have sex in a week also it depends how often people can see each other. As long as it’s safe and enjoyable I wouldn’t worry about it.

I probably see my boyfriend 5/7 days out of the week. & we would have 3-4 times each day. So it’s around the same amount as you. It’s became me & his “normal”. & honestly we said the same thing. That as long as we’re near each other, not having sex seems impossible. Unless he feels drained or I cant take it anymore. We also have crazy sex drive. And it’s good that y’all can’t get enough of each other because same lol.

"Normal" is whatever keeps both of you satisfied. And it's also normal for sex drives to fluctuate due to factors like health, age, stress, time, etc. if it's a new relationship, it's definitely a lot more exciting and that can trigger arousal and you two not being able to keep your hands off each other. And there's nothing wrong with that.

My boyfriend and I have sex about once a week lol. I agree with everyone else especially @xNymphadora, it depends on so many factors like your individual sex drives, how long you've been together etc

Separately though your boyfriend does show some red flags concerning his ideas about sex.

I agree with @aurielle re your boyfriend’s ideas about sex

It varies for me. I only see him a couple days a week and we have sex every time we see each other.

My fiancé and I have sex 1-3 times a week. It depends on our schedules, as some days we just don’t have time or are drained. When we just got together though, we did have sex everyday.

Once a morning if not morning and night

I see people here saying they have sex every time they see their boyfriend if not that then a couple of times a day, me and my boyfriend only have sex every few weeks, now granted I see him maybe 2/3 times a week. Should I be concerned?

@One_two_thre no. There is no “normal”. Every couple is different and everyone has different sex drives and as @xNymphadora said many things can affect your sex drive. If you and your partner are happy, satisfied and safe then that’s all that matters. Don’t compare yourself to what anyone else says. Personally I don’t have sex every single time I see my boyfriend. When I do it’s only once a day, the very odd time it might be twice. Not everyone has a super high sex drive. I don’t actually want to have sex multiple times day.

@One_two_thre I see my boyfriend 2-3 times a week and doesn’t always mean we have sex either. Usually our routine is pretty normal for us and will have those 3 days/week of us seeing eachother which then we usually have sex those days once maybe twice. It’s all about ur relationship not other peoples. Don’t base your relationship experiences of what others are.