How do u know if ur in a toxic relationship? When me and my boyfriend are together hes very loving and playful and its nice. we live an hour away from each other so we only get to see each other on the weekends. When were not together sometimes hes mean to be in not a funny way but to say “ur sh1t” kind of comments. I think hes projecting with what hes going through in his personal life but wont admit it. And i told him like why are you being mean to me and no response, so i just leave the call and he doesnt talk to me until i do which is usually the next day. Idk if its toxic or not but its happened a handful of times this kind of behavior

My bad maybe not toxic relationship but i think hes toxic. Just loads of negative comments towards me in a serious tone too. I try not to take it to heart but like idk it still gets to me which is why i leave the call

I told him id hang up too and he said you think i care of you leave aaaaa

that is toxic, it’s an immature and horrible way to speak to your partner and i wouldn’t put up with it if i were you, that’s horrible i’m sorry

That is toxic and incredibly immature of him. You should be with someone that appreciates you. Not someone that makes you feel like you’re not enough and replaceable. Guys like this won’t change. Him having stuff going on in his personal life is no excuse to treat you poorly. He has told you he doesn’t care, and he genuinely does not. It is time for you to respect yourself and leave. Block him on everything and banish him from your life.

Being mean and saying horrible things to someone repeatedly is bullying/verbal abuse. Giving you regularly the silent treatment is emotional abuse, he is doing it to hurt you. If you’re asking yourself if you’re in a toxic situation then deep down you know you’re being treated badly I think. Stop doubting yourself, you are being treated badly.

{8Cp7LFN6A} - if he’s saying it in a serious way or you’ve made it clear you don’t like it when he says stuff like that and he continues then it’s unhealthy and he is unlikely to change.