Is it disrespectful to my boyfriend that i signed up at the same gym as my ex? I only want to use the classes portion of it and not the gym area.

You can go wherever you want for the gym, classes or otherwise

I don’t see why it would matter. Would you avoid a supermarket just because your ex goes there? No.

Obviously not

No… unless he finds it disrespectful but I don’t understand why he would, ur just there to workout not to see him.

Only if you went to see the ex lol, or are super happy at the idea of him being there, which i doubt lol

Nope haha just there to workout. It was a good prices for classes and it’s close. Not trying to see him, trying to avoid him

Has your boyfriend expressed that he feels it’s disrespectful?

@swEEtLILy he has not but I haven’t told him specifically that my ex goes there. I truly don’t think he would care or would want to know.

And also I would not be going into the gym, only the workout classes

It wouldn’t be disrespectful even if he thought it was or cared.

You’re overthinking it, even if you’d go into the gym it would be completely fine to do so.

The fact you’re thinking is it disrespectful probably means it is.

@Batluvr1689 it's not though? Someone could have anxieties about it from a previous toxic relationship, that doesn't mean their thoughts are legitimate.