I’m completely over my ex, we broke up 4 years ago, I used to live with her and yes we were in love but very young and I realised it wasn’t what I wanted, we ended on bad terms simply because she didn’t take the break up well and we were long distance by 3 hours, anyway last night I had a dream that I went back down there and moved back in straight away, in the dream her mum was annoyed that I’d gone back because she kept saying how much I’d hurt her before and all of her family were in it and they weren’t talking to me (in real life I was close to all of them)... we went out for a night out and discussed why I broke up with her but we got on really well and she said it was okay, but then I woke up and now I feel so weird! I even feel guilty for dreaming about her when I’m very happily in love with my boyfriend, it felt so real

Definitely don’t feel guilty, it’s just a dream! I’ve found closure through dreams before—one time I had a long conversation with an ex where we both apologized for mishandling the whole thing. It’s just your brains way of working through emotions, even if your waking conscious isn’t always aware that it’s going on

Dreams are weird, don’t worry about it. I once dreamt I killed someone when in reality I have to set bugs free from my house because I can’t kill them and have never been able to

yeah I think I just woke up feeling really strange because of it, I guess it could be a closure type thing, I mean she was a huge part of my life at one point so I suppose it’s not that surprising if I’m thinking about her subconsciously

I sometimes have very strange dreams about my boyfriend and my friends (even people I haven’t seen in forever) that seem very odd and sometimes wrong/upsetting, but they’re just dreams. I wouldn’t worry about it