My boyfriend works with this married girl who has asked before to take a trip just him and her at night together and he obviously denied. Would you be mad that he asked her to watch his dog? Or also told me a story about a time when he bought her lunch for some reason?

**some work reason

I mean would you be mad if this was a male coworker? What is the reason you’re questioning this?

I guess because she tried to do a night trip with him while being married.

She asked him to take a trip at night where?

@gRazydol8 to another town like 1.5 hours away

I mean they are coworkers and these are normal things coworkers do. Unless there was some kind of falling out after she asked about the trip I don't see it as weird.

It sounds like they’re just friends!

If you aren’t comfortable with it you can have an honest conversation about it.

Watching someone’s dog or getting lunch for someone is completely innocent if you ask me. Sounds like they’re just friendly colleagues!

@yI_eune oh yeah that’s totally fine with me if she didn’t try to hit on him before. Basically a booty call after 2am while being married

Sounds like your boyfriend is handling this appropriately so I would just leave it to him to decide how to deal with this.

@Emotal does it really matter that she tried before? Your boyfriend turned it down and is handling the situation, is he not? I think you should trust him to do the right thing, you’ve only been together for a bit, but nothing in this post is alarming. If you already feel like you can’t trust him then maybe you shouldn’t be in a new relationship yet.