Hey, I have absolutely noone to ask this and i feel really embarrassed about it. Are these things normal? During sex my boyfriend often hits me really hard on the face i usually try to get him to stop. He also wraps his hands around my neck and he doesn’t ask. I don’t like it. Sometimes he will cover my mouth also. Sometimes he will randomly put his hands into my bottoms/underwear and touch me intimately he doesn’t ask he just does it. I told him it really hurts because it does but he doesn’t stop. Is he supposed to ask consent before doing these things?

100% he is supposed to ask. What you’re describing is assault and I’m so sorry you are experiencing this. Just because he’s your boyfriend that does not give him the right to touch your body however he pleases. It’s your body. If you don’t like a thing he’s doing and you tell him that then he should stop right there and then and if he doesn’t then you need to reconsider this relationship

Him doing any of this without your consent is considered sexual assault. He doesn’t get free reign because you’re together and the fact that that is not a natural click for him is a big red flag. I highly doubt talking to him will change anything, as he doesn’t listen to you when you tell him to stop or that you’re in pain. He doesn’t care. Please break up!! He’s dangerous.

Omg this is terrible, please please please get out of this situation before he seriously hurts you. This is abusive behaviour. None of what you described is normal. YES he is supposed to ask if you’re okay with any of this before he does it. This is not how sex and intimacy is supposed to be. Your body is not an object he can do whatever to whenever he likes to. Continuing to do something when you’ve said no or stop etc, and/or are clearly physically uncomfortable and are giving any non verbal signs that you’re not okay with what is happening is sexual assault. Please break up with this person!!!!

Oh my god this is scary. I’m so sorry that he’s doing this to you. THIS IS NOT A HEALTHY LOVING RELATIONSHIP. Anyone who you tell stop to should stop what they’re fucking doing!!! HE IS NOT SAFE!!! Breakup with him immediately and get as far away from him as possible. He does not respect you.

Girl, please break up with him. He is supposed to ask for consent before anything and to ask you if you want to do those types of things first before ever doing them to you… Breakup before it’s too lay and he does something badly to you. I understand you might feel conflicted since you must love him but that isn’t love. He doesn’t respect you. He sees you as an object and thats not love. You will find someone that loves you and respects you soon.

Thank you everyone so much for helping me it means so much. I have broken up with him. I really appreciate you all so much.

@Elsaxx proud of you and I hope you’re okay ❤️