The first time I had sex it was very painful, it took us 3 months to actually be able to have sex without any pain. I actually went to the doctors because of this cause i was too worried that I’ll never experience ‘good sex’ but my doctor said everything is fine down there just needs more time and patience , so when it’s painful don’t force it. Now we can finally have proper sex without any pain, just make sure you guys do lots of foreplay and listen when they say lube helps it deff helps .