Okay so I posted previously about the guy I was supposed to go on a date with. He used to text me EVERY morning and then every evening. he did say he does still want to meet possibly next weekend. But for the last three days there’s hasn’t been really any communication besides me asking if we are still meeting on original date. Since communication has changed, should I ask like what is going on or if he still wants to talk? I just don’t get how things change like that

My last comment still stands with this post. Do you need him to text you multiple times a day?

I guess no, but it went from texting every day to all of a sudden nothing at all. That’s what’s bothering me

I would go with the flow right now until next weekend. Just do you and if he texts you, you can reply, but I wouldn't keep starting the convos first. Then if next weekend is near and not much communication from him, ask if you are still meeting up? See what he says. See if you do meet up. If you don't, be done with him. I would give it this week to see how it goes. Then next weekend, you can let him know how you feel and how he broke it off to meet up again. Just don't get wrapped up into him not texting so much right now.

You’re putting way too much pressure on him with the texting. I recommend taking a step back and just letting things happen. It feels like you’re intentionally looking for something. As said on your other post: work on yourself and your confidence. You don’t need texts as a validation.

^ I second taking a step back and seeing how things go with zero pressure and expectation. It’s way too early days to be getting this invested in him unfortunately. Dating these days is really hard and it’s really tough to even begin to make a real connection with someone, so I understand and empathise with your frustration and disappointment. But you barely know this person, what’s going on in their head or their life, and it’s very, very likely whatever has changed has absolutely nothing to do with you, because he barely knows anything about you either.

I don’t recommend texting people you’re interested in lots (or being overly intimate through text) in the beginning, especially if you haven’t even met or have only been on a few dates. You barely know them so texting gives a false sense of familiarity and you create a dream person in your head. It’s not healthy to do this as you then put pressure on it to work out and obsess. I agree with @yi_eune that you should work on your self-confidence & independence before starting any relationships, I like the advice from sabrina.zohar on tiktok.