RELATIONSHIPS🙋🙋🙋🙋 I need yer help We have being together three years the way he treated me lately week was not right at all so I told him we are “ done “ till change attitude then we wanted to try his parents don’t want me dating him “ it’s a waste of time “ and they don’t want me going to talk to them like we are neighbours do I usually just talked into the houses.do ye think k should go down to the house and ask to talk to him parents are we both want to be together

What age are you? I think you need to decide what you want first are you “done” with him or not?

This guy has shown multiple red flags. I wouldn’t consider talking to his parents and just end things for good.

^ leave talking to his parents to him. Never get directly involved with a partner’s family.

Yeah but like we both want to be together

Like he tires to talk to his family but they said leave it “ yer both wasting each other time “

You want to be together but you told him you guys are done? Makes no sense. Either make it work or don’t. Either way you’re just going to have to accept that his family does not approve of your relationship.

Can someone else give me more info about this like should I just stop or try and talk to his parents or tell him to talk to them

Honestly you’ve given very little information here, it’s hard to give advice. It’s your life it’s up to you to decide. But if you can’t decide if you want this to work out or not, then that says a lot. If you really wanted this to work out and you really wanted to be a relationship with him you wouldn’t be unsure. Have his parents said exactly why they think you’re both wasting your time with each other?

No they were just saying yer both wasting yer time now , and then he’s parents told him I don’t want ye to get back together but at the end of the date his parents can give them there input but can’t choose as they aren’t the ones in the relationship,but my parents (just saying he’s name is window )” is window coming how is window what’s he doing td is window still going with you what window doing td “ like towards the end of the day I told want to tell my parents but I haven’t cryed of felt anything at all

@Jhonnysexton but how do you feel about it? Forget about what his parents or your parents are saying, what do YOU feel ?

I feel I want to get back ,like we had this conversation and first of all he said he wants to get back first and try again.yes he’s going threw allot of this and the way he treated me was not right at all. Like we both said we will give it once last try and doesn’t work don’t bother again so we were back talking he texted them everything abt his family

@bluerose9 really after three years the feelings just don’t go away that fast like I was in 3rd year when started now in 6th year nearly finished