Heyy I has sex with my boyfriend of 2 years last night, we usually do it pretty frequently. I started to notice that I‘m tighter and it hurt in every position. Idk what could‘ve changed that I‘m now so tight, we‘ve never had problems before. I wnated to come on here and get some advice( lube did practically nothing). I‘m getting all worked up in my head rn and i‘m scared that it will hurt every time now. I want to be able to have sex without pain.

You need more foreplay (20-30 minutes on you alone), if sex keeps hurting even then you should see a doctor as it could be an underlying cause. Did you actually want to have sex? How is your mental?

Try more foreplay

@Yi_eune More or less, I was very tired and I wasn‘t soo horny aswell. You might be right. I know i could just stop it whenever I‘m not so horny but we don‘t see eachother that often ( mostly weekends) and I want to satisfy him aswell.

@anjasimone you don't owe him sex, sex should be enjoyable for both of you and I'm sure he doesn't want you doing it just to please him when you're not in the mood

@anjasimone never have sex when you’re not fully up for it.