Hi everyone. Please let me know if this is just something normal in all relationship. I am in LDR right now. I was with him a little less than two years, and then he moved back to his hometown for the past three months to start the life journey. He started working and everything. We talk everyday. Every night he will call me after work. His text had somehow become more dry. For eg, No more lovey kissy smileys. I know I am being, I don’t know.. a kid. Its not always lovey dovey, but this is his signature and I love him for this. Is it a sign of love wearing off? We are not really clingy to each other but I am scared. I feel like texting is crucial for me now because LDR but its always just a little dry. What do I do to feel calm and sure that he wants me? I always feel like he is just waiting for me to break up with him so he does not have to. Thank you everyone.

If you’re talking on the phone every day I don’t really see why you’d have to text as well. It’s a lot to balance work, private life, daily calls, ánd texting on top of that. Personally I don’t think the lack of emojis is anything to be concerned about, I cycle emoji’s over time and definitely started using them less and less over the years. You could talk to him about how you feel of course, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with doing that.

I’d definitely communicate this with him. Sometimes it has nothing to do with you and more to do with him. I go through phases where I just feel like a lazy texter even to my partner lol. It’s nothing malicious. But if you’re concerned, no harm in asking :)